If your other half is cheating, forget the obvious signs that you see in the movies. You won’t see underwear in your significant other’s car or have late night mysterious phone calls. Unless your other half is just really dumb, it’ll never happen. So, how do you know if your “loved one” is cheating on you?
Always Asking When You’re Going To Be Home
If your whereabouts – at all times – is suddenly their concerns, chances are they’re cheating on you. They know they have a limited time to spend with this other person. They’ll do what they can to spend as much time as they can with them.
No Longer On The Same Bedroom Schedule
Does your other half tell you they’re staying up late to get work done, play a computer or watch a Netflix movie? Regardless of the reason, they may be doing it to stay up and spend time on the phone, so you can’t see what they’re doing or listen in on their phone call.
Has your partner changed his/her cologne/perfume after years of using the same kind? Are they suddenly using cologne or perfume? It could be that their new someone told them about a scent they like.
They’re Not Going To Watch Movies About Affairs
Are you having a hard time getting to watch movies with your other half that deal with affairs? It could be a guilty conscience. If they look uncomfortable or squirm, then there is probably a reason for it.
They Constantly Gone For Extended Periods of Time
This is fairly obvious, but some people have a tendency to explain their absence in a cleverly way. Did they tell you they were walking the park by themselves for two to three hours? Did they partake fun at the club on their own? If they give you an excuse, you may not be able to find out the truth.
Daily Routines and Habits Have Changed
The majority of people have a routine and habit, so when you notice a change in a person’s routine, they may be doing it to make time for somebody else.
They’re More Attentive To The Way They Look
Have you noticed a change in the way they present themselves? Do they spend more time in the bathroom, taking care of their appearance? Have you started to work out and get into good shape? If so, there’s a reason for it.
New Expressions and Phrases
People often pick up new expressions and phases when they’re around new folks. Is this something you see happening? People often don’t realize they’re mimicking the people they’re around and can be a sign that they’re cheating on you.
Their Social Life Is Busy Suddenly
Do you have a hard time finding time together? Do they constantly break their plans with you? If they’re suddenly inaccessible, they may be cheating on you and don’t want you to know that this is what they’re doing.
They’re Starting To Feel Guilty
The guilt can cause them to feel physical symptoms such as insomnia, depression, lack of appetite, etc.
They’re Suddenly Interested In Sex Again
Someone who wasn’t interested in sex before and is suddenly interested in it now may be due to another sex partner. If they’re using condoms or birth control pills, it may be a warning sign.
Do you ask them questions and they give you a blank stare? Do they take a long time to give you an answer or pretend you even asked them a question? If so, this is a stalling tactic. Cheaters are worried they’ll be caught in a lie. They’ll deflect questions or refuse to give you an immediate answer.
There is a reason people have a gut instinct. If you feel like something is off, chances are you’re right. If you feel like your other half is cheating on you, trust that instinct and find out what you can. Your gut instincts can save you a lot of heartaches if you just listen to them.